Flirting is just as much a science as it is an art. When you flirt, you’re conveying intentions with your body (or in some cases, your words.) We’ll assume that you’ve made it past those crucial initial steps of online dating, and now you’re meeting someone out in the real world. If it’s time to really make an impression, it’s probably time to start flirting. Flirting isn’t always intuitive, and it sometimes takes practice. Here are some of the methods you can use to flirt, and let that special someone know that you’re interested:
1. Introduction
2. How to Flirt
Flirt with your eyes. Getting and holding eye contact with someone is a time-honored flirting method. It’s also considered to be especially perspective. Simply locking eyes with that special person can be a great signal. Don’t be too disappointed if that first long stare misses, however. It usually takes three consecutive eye locks for the recipient to get it. Flirt by grooming. For girls, stroking your hair, exposing your neck or licking your lips all bring attention to your attractiveness. For men, straightening yoru clothing or fixing your hair works, as does hooking your finger into your pants or sucking in your stomach. Flirt by smiling. Don’t underestimate the sheer power of the smile. Use it along with other body language, however, or you might run the risk of seeming unintentionally amused, rather than flirtatious. Flirt by aiming. Aim your body at the intended target. Point your feet in their direction, and lean your shoulders in toward them. Just don’t be too imposing or intimidating with this one. Flirt by touching. Accidentally touching (not accidentally groping) is a great flirtatious technique. Even shaking hands can be. Casually placing your hand on the recipient’s arm as you walk by is another great way to use touch to flirt. Flirt by imitating. In some cases, simply mirroring the other person’s movements may give the message of flirting, because it subconsciously reinforces their own actions. In some cases, however, this may actually backfire and make the person self-conscious, so be sure to watch how they react to the imitation. If they seem uncomfortable, stop.